Love is the most precious feeling in the world. Love is dramatic and amazing. If you can express love and care to anyone, you are lucky. Because there are many people who can’t usually express their feelings about loving someone. For them, it will be tough to express their love for someone.

They better be silent. Those who can’t express their love are usually anxious and introverted. They usually think that if they express all their love and care to their beloved, their beloved will be very proud of them and gradually ignore them. They think that after expressing their care for their partner, he or she will take advantage of their love.

So, many people who are introverts, anxious, or have trust issues do not like to convey their feelings; they are more like silent people.

But if you think about the side of their beloved who wants to hear the words of love and care from their partner’s mouth, they actually feel disappointed, and gradually they grow suspicious of their partner’s love.

They tend to think that their partner is not happy with them. And gradually, they lost connection with each other. Suspicious and trust issues come into play in their relationship. Both of them think that the opposite person ignores them and is not interested in them anymore. In this situation, a beautiful relationship can break into pieces.

So, my point is that communication is important to some extent. Avoid oversharing at any cost. So, in my opinion, when you are confused about how to start a conversation, I would suggest you ask questions about anything you like.

Try to do it funny and enjoy it. If you don’t have enjoyment and peace in your relationship, you are ruined! Because peace is important and enjoyment will be the memory for the two of you. So, try to answer the questions at the first meeting.

Light questions will be fun as well as easy to answer. Don’t make him or her panic on the first date. Asking questions will be a great option if you are shy and lack communication skills. You don’t have to have great communication skills all the time, but try to communicate with your partner with ease.

Don’t be nervous; this will have a negative impact on your partner’s mind. If he or she is not good, they will take advantage of you and may bully you for that, and I think you all know that bullying is a bad thing.

Bullies should stop. You should be confident and firm when you ask those questions. Your confidence and firmness will be the keys for your opponent to truly answer the questions.

So, here I talk about an introvert’s problem. You might think, “How am I supposed to know that?

The reality is, when I was on my first date, I was very nervous. I was so shy and introverted back then; actually, I didn’t even like to communicate, especially with boys. I felt irritated whenever I saw boys.

So, on my first date, I was way more nervous. I was anxious because I could not find a way to communicate with the boy with whom I was matched. So my roommate, who is also my senior, told me some tips to communicate well with the boy. So, today I am going to share this with you.

She told me to:

  1. Communicate with him strongly and confidently.
  2. Don’t panic.
  3. Avoid answering useless questions.
  4. Don’t be so friendly with him.
  5. And most importantly, ask him some important questions before starting a relationship.
  6. Don’t make him feel proud of himself.
  7. Don’t let him only pay the bill; if you have money, you also pay the minimum of 50%.
  8. Be gorgeous by your attire.
  9. Don’t do loud makeup.
  10. Try to understand his needs.
  11. Avoid touching.
  12. Maintain your worth in front of him.

And you also have problems communicating? Then you have come to the right place. I think I can help you in this case.

If you are wondering which questions you will ask your partner before starting a relationship, Then don’t worry; I’m here to guide you in this case. I will tell you how you should select your questions and ask them in front of your partner with confidence and firmly. Remember, don’t be rude when you ask the questions. If you are rude, then it will be ruined!

So, let’s talk about the questions that will help you start a new relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Remember, you can use these questions for your girlfriend as well. In both cases, it will be helpful, I hope.

  • 21 questions to ask your boyfriend about a new relationship
  1. What are your hobbies?
  2. Do you hold grudges?
  3. Why do you like me?
  4. Why should I like you?
  5. Do you have any past relationships?
  6. Have you ever cheated on your girlfriend?
  7. Have you had sex with someone before?
  8. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
  9. Do you have some sort of addiction?
  10. Do you have any kind of sexual fantasy?
  11. How many times do you prefer sex in one week?
  12. Have you ever been emotionally or physically abused?
  13. Have you ever been cheated on?
  14. If you ever had relations, then why did you two break up?
  15. What is your love language?
  16. Do you pay attention to small details?
  17. Are you genuinely ready for a serious relationship?
  18. Do you want kids?
  19. Do you prioritize family over everything?
  20. How will you introduce me to your family?
  21. Are you interested in long-term relationships?

These are some questions that I asked my boyfriend. You can also try this on your boyfriend before starting a relationship.

Thank you. Good luck.

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Written by Semusi Datta

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